What are softeners?

Softeners are the most important tool to make sure you soften what you do by throwing some fluffy phrases.

For example, i often say that- “you know, I hope you don’t mind asking this, but one of the things i like to do is to find out about the person I’m getting to know, and i do that by asking questions about what’s important to them. So as you look at men and think about men and think about what we’re talking about, I’d just like to ask you……….”

Well this was a very lengthy softener.

Let us look at some examples of softeners:

1. I know this might seem a little wild, but just for the sake of this playful discussion we’re having……

2. I just want to say, and i hope you don’t find this too intrusive….

3. Would you mind if i just asked you, just for the sake of helping me understand better….

All of these work because they pace any possible objection she might have to get going along with you.

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I am keeping this blog very short because in the next blog we will cover the most important topic “Rules and Attitudes to win at any girl”