It’s important to understand that a command isn’t just a matter of wording but the tone of voice you use
In English language we have three kinds of sentences:
1. Statements
2. Questions
3. Commands
A statement is uttered with an even tonality
A question ends up with Upturn in tonality
A command ends with a down turn in tonality
Make sure to pause and drop your tonality downwards when you use commands.
The Weasel Phrases
Weasel phrases are the embedded commands in your language which you can use on a person’s subconscious mind and the person obeys what you tell them to do.
Now I am going to tell you about the most commonly used weasel phrases to give command to subconscious mind. With example of each in the end.
1. When you: when you presupposes that the woman is going to do the thing or experience the state you describe, so it’s no longer open to debate or doubt. “When you feel incredibly turned on do you find yourself compelled to act on it?”
2. What would it be like if: this weasel phrase is in effect, a command for the person to imagine the condition or occurrence described after it. “What would be like if you were to feel incredibly turned on.”
3. A person can: but talking about a ‘person’ it deflects any resistance on the part of women since you really are talking about her. “A person can feel incredibly turned on talking with someone they really really like!”
4. If you were to: in this weasel phrase, ‘if’ deflects resistance while directing the woman to imagine the experience, condition, feeling or situation you are describing. “If you were to feel incredibly turned on do you think you might feel compelled to act on it?”
5. As you: this phrase assumes the woman will do the behaviour or undergo the condition you describe. “As you feel incredibly turned on, can you feel how excited you’re getting?”
6. It’s not necessary to: which is an example of negation which we will discuss later by using this phrase we eliminate any resistance. “It’s not necessary to feel incredibly turned on, as you listen carefully to what I say.”
7. You really shouldn’t: it is an another negation phrase since you are saying they shouldn’t, it’s not like you are trying to get them do anything, aren’t you? “You really shouldn’t feel incredibly turned on!”
8. You might find: is used as the start of an intensifying chain of phrases. It implies that they are going to experience what you describe as something that just happens, so it’s not like you’re commanding them to do it! “You might find as you field incredibly turned on.” it can lead you to act on it.
9. To the point where: this phrase connects one thing your victim is experiencing with the next thing you want them to experience, so it’s useful both as a connector and as an amplifier. “You might find those pictures start to get bigger and brighter to the point where you feel incredibly turned on!”
10. Invite you to notice: this is the same effect as “you might find” because it implies that what you describe is going to happen. Plus, invite as pleasant connotations of it being voluntary and polite! “and I invite you to notice how the form of my voice can allow you to feel incredibly turned on!”
11. How surprised would you be to: this implies that the event you describe is certainly going to happen, and only question is how surprised She shall be by it! “How surprised will you be to find that you can feel incredibly turned on?”
Aren’t those just great? Are you starting to feel incredibly turned on yet?
Weasel phrases + Command verbs + States, Processes or Experiences = Embedded commands
(for example: what’s it like when you become incredibly turned on?)
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